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Sunday, December 11, 2011
I have not personally experienced a long distance relationship, but I have seen the drama, tears, and late night Skype sessions. As an outsider, I believe I hold an important perspective, so listen up, and stop texting your boyfriend.
Okay, so I may be a little biased on the subject, but I remember watching this poor girl who lived on my floor stay up for hours as she whispered sweet nothings into her webcam. The rest of us were bonding over MTV’s Jersey Shore in our residence hall’s lounge, eating take-out, and doing all those quintessential first-year college activities. However, this poor girl was too busy moping.
I completely understand that people can really connect in high school and carry relationships into college. I have seen it done successfully in the past, and when two people are just right for each other, it’s beautiful.
But here’s the thing—we can’t forget about ourselves. A long distance relationship takes an excessive amount of work on top of your 13 papers, extra curriculars, and leisure schedule.
A relationship can be extremely rewarding and euphoric, but we are so lucky to be here. College is a privilege, and you are unwise if you do not sink your teeth into everything. Our main objectives are to learn, have fun, figure out who the heck we are, and try new things. It is such a gift, and it’s just a damn shame if you miss out on all of this to text your boyfriend or girlfriend 24/7.
So be good to yourself. If your relationship is completely distracting you from the entire experience that is college, it may be time to call it quits. However, in the rare case that you are able to carefully balance your significant other, Intro to Strategic Communications, and dance practice, that’s great too. Remember to invite me to your wedding!
Sunday, December 4, 2011
There is a misconception out there. A misunderstanding perhaps multiplied by movies like Animal House or TV shows like Greek. This misinterpretation is that college is just one big party.
It is purported that if you are not out and about on Friday, Saturday, or even Thursday nights then you are considered uncool. But there is a lot more to the college experience than becoming a champion at beer pong or performing a keg stand.
There is nothing wrong with just staying in. Having a relaxing night with good food and good friends can be equally as exciting.
Do not feel obligated to rip shots, if you want something more low-key. Why not stay in and watch a movie with your friends?
One of my best college memories is staying in and watching the absolutely worst movie ever made, The Room. This cult classic is chockfull of absurd quotes. To this day, our group of friends constantly recall this fun evening and confuse others with our inside jokes.
If you don’t want to actually stay in your room and watch a movie, most weekends you can find movies playing in Textor sponsored by Ithaca SAB. Cinemapolis downtown and Regal Cinema at the Triphammer Mall are also excellent alternatives!
If movies are not your thing and you are thinking about spending your small amount of hard-earned cash on a few drinks for one night, why not spend your money on a great meal at one of the many amazing restaurants in the Ithaca area?
Downtown in the Commons are some of the best restaurants I have ever been to. Viva Taqueria, The Ale House, Taste of Thai, Jade Garden, and The BoatYard Grill are Ithaca favorites. Again, another great memory from my college years is when a group of us all went to Viva for dinner.
College is a great time to make memories with great friends. There is nothing wrong with making these memories with a quiet or chill night staying in and away from the party scene. People do not party as much as they make you want to believe.
Don’t get me wrong, memories are created at parties too, but unlike the memories you may make watching movies or going out to eat, you probably won’t remember them.
Monday, November 28, 2011
Now that I live in a Circle Apartment—with a full kitchen—I don’t have to worry about a meal plan. I loved the community aspect of the dining halls, but I still wanted to cook. I lived in a dorm my freshman and sophomore years, and I can tell you from first hand experience that it’s not hard to be a “dorm room chef.”
Every residence hall has a full kitchen. The trick is finding it. Visit your area office (For BRT it’s in Talcott and for the Lower Quads it’s Eastman). If you’re still unsure, ask your RA where it is, and you will be pointed in the right direction. You will find a variety of cooking utensils you can check out. If you like cooking in a full kitchen this is a great opportunity to do so.
If you’re like the majority of college students who has no desire to lug all your ingredients and cooking utensils up 3 flights up stairs every time you want to cook, don’t fret. You can still make a variety of meals just using your microwave. If you do plan on cooking, whether it’s in the dorm kitchen or in your dorm, I suggest you keep a few things in your room: a fork, knife, spoon, a few bowls, plates and cups, as well as whatever ingredients you might need to cook your desired meal.
The mini fridge/freezer comes in handy for keeping food fresh. I usually stocked mine with fruits, veggies, and other healthy snacks. As far as the freezer goes I always had some frozen dinners, bagels, Hot Pockets, and chicken nuggets. Easy Mac (a favorite of mine) is also a microwave-ready meal. If you’re not in the mood to cook a full meal or you just need a fast fix these are all tasty and easy solutions.
If you do have the time and desire to make a full meal that’s more than possible! Ramen soup is simple, and if you’re feeling creative add some veggies or meat.
If you’re feeling adventurous, you can make a full chicken/eggplant parmesan dinner using your microwave. Believe it or not, you can cook pasta with hot water in a microwave. It takes some time, but it is possible.
Heat up your chicken nuggets/frozen breaded eggplant. Throw it on top of your cooked pasta and add sauce and some cheese. Heat it up for another minute and you’ve completed your microwavable Italian feast. Bon Appetit!
Now it’s time for dessert. You can always keep a pint of your favorite ice cream in the freezer, but if you’re finding that this isn’t satisfying your sweet tooth don’t worry!
There are plenty of simple microwavable dessert recipes online. Brownies in a mug anyone?
In general, if you are looking for some easy recipes, Google search “dorm cooking.”
Below are some websites I’ve used in the past:
Monday, November 14, 2011
Coming to Ithaca College from out of state isn’t that uncommon, but coming all the way from Seattle definitely isn’t the norm. At first I didn’t really notice the difference between driving 6 hours to school and flying 6 hours, but when fall break rolled around in October, I found the difference for the first time. I wasn’t able to just drive home. That is why it is really important to go home at the right times.
Most students are able to take a bus or drive home on breaks without much planning in advance. Even if they can’t find a ride, booking a bus can be done without any preparation. When I fly home, it takes making a plane reservation months in advance, finding a ride to the airport, and hoping that Ithaca’s weather doesn’t screw with my schedule.
Since traveling does take a lot of effort and has many variables, choosing when to go home is very important. I didn’t go home for Thanksgiving, opting to go to my friend Liz’s home instead. This worked out well for me because I got to spend time with one of my best friends and hang out in New York City for a week. Some people really need to go home for Thanksgiving to help ease the feeling of being homesick, which is perfectly fine. If you think that you can last a little bit longer, staying with a friend for Thanksgiving can save your parents tons of money and you can create some great memories.
I think it goes without saying that almost everyone should go home for winter break, so I’m going to move to spring break. For spring break, I did go home. I went home because my birthday falls right around that time and I wanted to be able to celebrate with my family. Looking back on it now, I think that I could have held off on going home, only because there isn’t a lot of time between winter and spring break. Also, none of my friends from home were home at the same time as me because their school schedules were all different. This year, I plan on studying at Ithaca’s brand new NYC program for spring semester and won’t be going home. Instead, my parents will visit me for my Birthday.
In the end, deciding what breaks to go home for really depends on how badly you need to go home. Just remember to plan in advance to get the cheapest air fare and think of other alternatives that could be just as fun.
Sunday, November 6, 2011
With the transition from home life to college life a common question that many students have is: “how often should I be calling home?”
I’m a sophomore and looking back on my first year I have learned a lot about how often to call home. I live about 45 minutes from Ithaca, so for many of you that probably sounds quite close. Here’s the thing though, whether Ithaca is 20 minutes or 20 hours from your home, calling home is something we all have to deal with.
During my first semester I will admit, I did not call home as much as I probably should have. Even though I live semi close to home, my family still misses me. I was really focused with getting involved on campus, keeping my grades up, going out on weekends and meeting new people, because for me it was a new adventure. However, while I was doing all these new and exciting things my family was living their regular routine life, just without me. I didn’t notice them as much as I should have and if I could go back, I would have called more that semester.
Now that I am through my first year I understand why I acted the way that I did. I didn’t want to be the girl that couldn’t handle being on her own, so keeping myself busy was a way to avoid feeling lonely and needing to call my parents.
I understand that it’s okay to call your family and talk to them, that doesn’t mean you can’t handle living on your own, it just means you love them. I still enjoy being busy, but calling my mom on that ten minute break between classes lets her know I’m thinking of her and brings peace to my mind.
On the flip side of things, calling home too much is not good either because you do need to establish a new sense of independence. Leaning on your parents for every detail of your life will stunt your metaphorical growth.
My answer to the big question isn’t something like “you should call home 2.5 hours every 2 days” or some crazy statistic like that, instead it is simply: whatever you find necessary.
If you need to talk to your mom every day, then call her every day and if you would like to start calling her less, then maybe try setting a goal to call her every other day. Everyone has a different experience with calling home. Some need it more than others, but the most important thing is that you do it as much as YOU need/want to given your life and relationships with your family.