Learning to Lead

By Laura Ilioaei ’23, April 5, 2023
Retreat connects students with female leaders.

On March 25, Ithaca College held its 20th annual Women in Leadership Experience (WILE) retreat as part of the Women Leaders Series, a month of personal and professional development programs for college women student leaders. The retreat gives students an opportunity to learn about the historical experiences of women in leadership and how their experiences can help guide the next generation of female leaders.

The daylong WILE retreat, titled “Peace and Love through Activism,” began at the Women’s Rights Museum in Seneca Falls, New York, which in 1848 was the home of the first women’s rights convention. The museum features a series of historical artifacts illustrating the story of the struggle for women’s civil rights, human rights, and equality, as well as how these global issues persist today. This was followed by a visit to the Wesleyan Chapel next door, which was a local hub for antislavery activity, political rallies, and free speech events.

Following the chapel tour was a lunch and panel that included Ithaca College faculty and women from the Ithaca community. Moderated by Jasmine Williams ’25, the panel included Chrystyna Dail, associate professor of theatre studies; Rachel Wagner, professor and coordinator of women’s, gender, and sexuality studies, and philosophy and religion; and Katie Church, cofounder and codirector of the Youth Farm Project.

Panelists at a table

The event included a panel discussion featuring (from left) Jasmine Williams, Rachel Wagner, Chrystyna Dail, and Katie Church. (Photo by Laura Ilioeai '23)

An important topic during the panel involved the discussion of what it means to practice self-care. Panelists felt the implementation of standards and boundaries was an effective strategy.

“Friday evenings are sacrosanct,” Dail said. “I take a post-work tumbling class with my husband, and then I go home. I don’t answer emails, and I don’t do any grading or writing, and I spend time with my family. And if someone asks me to do something on Friday nights, I simply say no. I feel like I have the agency to say no at this point of my life.”

Church spoke about the importance of showing up to make change but not overextending oneself. “Without people showing up, then changes aren’t made,” she said. “[So I] choose carefully where I want to be and to feel like I have the reserves for them, and also to be fed by those things."

The retreat gave participants the opportunity to think more critically of their approaches to female leadership in their own lives. “I would say that I really learned to not back down from a challenge, to take things head on, and open yourself up to new opportunities. I feel like I’ve had some steady progress in changing how I was doing things lately, and that was the path I was already taking. But with this new light, I will be more open to making connections,” said Hailee Daunis ’25.