Her college graduation day was not the first time that Lili Chalfant ’26, a Writing for Film, Television, and Emerging Media major in the Roy H. Park School of Communications, addressed an audience with her lived experience. It was as a high school junior at Culver Academies in her home state of Indiana when she first took the stage, told her truth, and changed her life. It was then that she learned the power of conversation—of dialogue.
Chalfant has been bald since kindergarten due to alopecia universalis, an autoimmune disease she was born with. As a child, she often felt set apart. Assumptions and speculation surrounded her, while few people had the courage to ask questions. Though she had friends, she rarely felt a true sense of community or belonging.
So, she turned to dialogue to change that.
With a microphone in hand, a carefully memorized speech, and PowerPoint slides behind her, Chalfant stood in her high school auditorium to deliver a 20-minute presentation filled with humor, honesty, and education about alopecia and her lived experience to her classmates. In sharing her story, she changed the way people saw her—and the way she saw herself. Understanding replaced assumption. Connection replaced isolation. She found belonging. By her final year, she was elected Senior Prefect, her school’s highest honor for a female student.
Six years later, Chalfant stepped onto another stage at Glazer Arena in Ithaca College's Athletics and Events Center, this time before more than 6,500 classmates, family members, faculty, staff, and supporters as the student speaker for the college’s 131st Commencement ceremony.